It’s hard to look online, without delving deep into the plethora of articles surrounding coronavirus that are sending people around the globe into panic. None more so than the events and hospitality industry. For those brides and grooms with upcoming nuptials, it’s understandably devastating to have to make the call to postpone your wedding. However, I think knowing the situation is completely out of your control and most importantly, you have found someone with whom you want to spend your life, should be considered a blessing. You will still get married! It might not be how or when you had imagined, but you will all still have weddings when this is over
In no way am I downplaying the severity of this situation, weddings at the best of times heighten emotions and this challenge will certainly seem very daunting but don’t make decisions out of frustration. Don’t give up on your suppliers, they too are suffering. Work with your vendors, communicate with them, check new dates or simply wait until things all become a little clearer and easier to manage (if your weddings are towards the end of the year). Of course, if your wedding falls in the next twelve weeks waiting isn’t an option, but be mindful and considerate - remember you originally chose your suppliers because you liked their work and you want to retain these relationships for whenever you re-schedule.
Panicking won’t help and if anything, may cause tension and conflict between you and your partner. Try to stay rational (appreciate this is sometimes easier said than done) and discuss and assess all of the viable options. Many suppliers will bend over backwards to help you with solutions and by remaining calm, you will be in a better position to make informed choices. The safety of your guests - both family and friends - should always be your priority. Keep them informed about any decisions aswell, to avoid the onslaught of calls and messages trying to find out what’s happening, which ultimately will feel far more overwhelming.
If postponing your wedding does become your only option, check new dates when you can, as many other brides and grooms will be in the same position of having to re-schedule and you don’t want to lose out on working with suppliers to whom you have paid deposits. Be understanding and patient if suppliers don’t come back to you immediately, this is an unprecedented time and everyone is trying to re-arrange and re-schedule. Everybody is human and trying to be as flexible and accommodating as possible, but this can take some time.
Most importantly, despite frustrated hopes you will still get to marry the person to whom you said yes. These weeks may test your relationship, but supporting one another at this difficult time will prove that together you can conquer anything and further prove you have made the right decision to spend the rest of your lives together.
Finally, always remember one of my favourite sayings at the moment, “this too shall pass”.
Stay safe and healthy.